When I was 11 years old, my mother converted to Christianity. She was open with me throughout her journey, neither shying away from my questions nor suggesting I join her. It was her path and hers alone.
When she shared her decision I remember the collective familial gasp, the confusion, the anger. She never wavered. I cannot imagine how hard it must have been for her, and I admire her honesty, self-awareness, and conviction even more today than I did then.
Very few people, let alone children, learn that belief can be dynamic and evolving, that faith should be cultivated and nurtured, that religion at its best is actively produced, not passively consumed.
My mother taught me to be a seeker, to chart the course of my own spiritual life. I chose a different path, but we are kindred wayfarers, and the compass I inherited from her continues to guide me to this day.
Jessica Minnen is a writer, educator, and consultant. She was a part of the founding team at OneTable where she now serves as the Resident Rabbi. www.onetable.org
