For me, the word “welcoming” is deeply associated with the word “opening” – opening a door, a heart, a mind. Opening your eyes in order to truly see those around you, opening your mind to new ideas, opening your heart, even to what seems threatening, frightening, ominous, with the knowledge that we fear most what we are unfamiliar with. Reaching out to those whom we are suspicious of, those whom we have formed weakly based opinions of, is the key to dissolving fear and making way for growth and acceptance.
“The art of welcoming” – yes, art is all about welcoming. We artists welcome all and everything. “Bring it on,” we say! We are forever curious; life is our inspiration, life in all its diversity, misery, beauty and infinite mystery. We welcome the challenge of its unraveling and transform it into artistic offerings of myriad form.
I love welcoming people into my home. I admit, I drive myself and everyone a bit crazy before they come making sure everything is spotless and beautiful, sweet smelling flowers, good food and wine on the table, my three sweet, darling children scrubbed and dressed, all in honor of our guest, whomever he or she or they may be. Of course it doesn’t take long before it all crumbles into a lovely, warm mess of loud conversation, spotted tablecloths, stained dresses, music and mayhem…but all the merrier! Guests bring their languages, their ideas, their customs, the sound of their laughter, and most importantly, their perspective. They bring the gift of their friendship, their newness, the scent of their mysterious otherness, enriching our lives and blessing us. Be it people or ideas, I feel an open door and mind embodied in the phrase “the art of welcoming,” are the key to a fascinating, fulfilling journey through life, one I would wish upon you, and all those I love. Wishing you wings.
